Stop Bullying Bollywood

This is about a young man who dared to dream. An actor, successful, full of promise, charming, all of 34 who took his own life. It definitely shocks us and the matter begs to be noticed. Since Sunday India has been asking the same question as he didn't leave behind any explanation for his last adieu.

My parents introduced me to his acting when he started his journey in films. I watched couple of his movies and found him to be a very accomplished actor doing justice to his graft. 

It's even more mystifying as apparently all looked hunky dory in the star's life. In a short span of seven years he already had many noteworthy films under his belt and was well loved by audiences across the country. He had all that money could buy. Yet something extremely important seems to be missing. And what may that be? Appreciation of peers? 

The list of stars ending their lives has been growing since the last few years. Names such as Preksha Mehta, Sejal Sharma, Disha Salian have been disturbing. Sadly, now even a mega star such as Sushant Singh Rajput has joined the list of unfortunates. 

Two years ago when celebrity chef Anthony Bourdain ended his own life I was speechless. Through our televisions he had reached our homes telling us stories from far and wide which not only introduced us to food  but also to fascinating cultures across the world. And we never understood why would he throw it all away and call it quits. But the constant pressure he kept himself under to deliver an exceptional television piece every week, we could somehow understand that performance pressure got the better of him. But in Sushant's case it seems to be something even worse. Mental abuse leading to mental health issues.
   
The journey to the top is always very lonely and seldom without hurdles. As opportunities grow more and more in media youngsters move to Bollywood to try stardom. Young, talented and always vulnerable. A large number keep struggling but a talented few do make it to the top and Sushant was one of such extraordinary person. It's really sad to know world's largest number of film production machine "Bollywood" which likes to call itself an "industry" is not even aware of basic industrial laws and labour rights. 

One might say who hasn't faced politics in work place. So deal with it. As Julia Roberts, says in the film Notting Hill, "every time I have a heart break, it's headlines." The scrutiny is tremendous. But this is a rat race like no other. Here the story becomes particularly ruthless and mean.  There's no accountability for the so called "industry" wala production banners and they actually get away with murder by ragging, bullying and worst mentally abusing the youngsters. Bollywood has become a clique of few families who would go to any length to "other" you. 

With Sushant's death one thing is very clear, it's time for the "industry" to wake up and introspect, take corrective measures or Bollywood, will soon be labelled as the "torture industry" of India. Sensitive and thoughtful members of Bollywood should come forward and start a new chapter which ensures workplace without bullying, counselling support and above all human rights. Rest in Peace dear Star! Hope your life was not lost in vain Sushant!

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Comments

Mirage said…
Lovely and heartfelt... but you know what this bullying, favouritism/ nepotism is there in all fields of work...one darker than the other! And its prevalent even in schools... it is not so easy to get rid of it... but yes it's a start of sorts as people have now become more aware of the dirty politics, of the suppression of talent,of brutal force, and mund games... Sushant was a shooting star... glorious to behold but one that burnt out too fast... May his soul rest in eternal peace.

illusions said…
Yeah,rest in peace you dreamer. One has to constantly demand for change, like we demand to stop ragging in schools and colleges. It's the same thing and much dirtier. It pains me to even think what must he have felt to end it all.
Unknown said…
Jethi introduced us to his acting when she used to watch Pavitra rishta! Also we must not forget his academic brilliance and high IQ compared to other stars in Bollywood!
illusions said…
Yeah she did. Even Baba was full of praises :D That's another issue a geek amongst not high school graduates had no true friends. May he find friends amongst his favourite stars.
Running Shoes said…
Lovely lovely piece Pragya. It is beyond sad and heart breaking to see someone so young and superbly talented just give up his life. It is our fault mostly that he landed in an industry which is full of people with mediocre to no talent but the loudest voice. And how this happened? because we saw their movies and raved about their shows. Felt extremely proud to meet even one and get a picture clicked, we actually thought "wow I am so lucky to have met so and so" ... We let them brain wash us to an extent that while today we have woken up for Shushant, we had no idea really what he was going through , however we all knew the diaper brand of "star" baby..
It is time to to stand for this, it is time as human beings, and audience to as for proper audits and process . My earnest prayer that there is some good come of this horrible incident and we hopefully dont see another repeat.
Thank you so much for this piece and giving this space for my thoughts...
illusions said…
Thanks a ton Bisha for taking time out to voice out your anger and frustration. Little did we know how what power his performance had on us. I think, even Sushant himself was not aware what powerful impact he made on us audience. That's why the mediocre Bollywood was so scared of him I suppose.

Firstly, they had no clue the enduring shine of the true North Star nor did they understand the language of an artiste that spoke in quantum equations.

I simply wish Sushant had not taken them so seriously and had treated them as the day - job that they are.

My heart goes out to the bereaved family especially his Father. May God be with him in this struggle.
Kasturi said…
Any untimely death affects us. When that involves a celebrity, the ripple stays for a longer period. But the kind of hue and cry that Sushant Singh Rajput's death has generated is almost as unbelievable as his suicide. A man with twinkling and dreaming eyes, a warm smile and a seemingly good heart has "decided" death is better than life and it stayed in our realm of disbelief for quite a few days, made his fans and non-fans equally sad and angry. We are shocked because we don't want to believe it that someone who used to always say "someone who thinks he can do and who thinks he can't do, both are usually right" (he himself said he had read it somewhere) couldn't handle his "cans" and "can'ts". We started searching for an answer to calm ourselves down and Bollywood's failure to develop itself as a true industry became the focal point. It's unfortunate the way some people are trying to cash in on it but then nothing is perfect in life and that doesn't render the issue worthless. Again as the supremely talented, multifaceted man himself said "nepotism can coexist but when that thwarts talent, that's where the problem begins. Because then we are looking at the imminent collapse of the industry". Very wise assessment -- nothing can be perfect but you put limits and, in case of bollywood, ensure that it doesn't lead to mental abuse. Human minds are resilient but they are fragile too. But so far bollywood hasn't bothered much. Some of its biggies have paid a lip service and gone back into their ivory towers. Yes nothing will change in a day but the process has to start so that other Sushants feel safe and secured. No human life deserves to be ruined. His death may have shaken us more but his is not the only such incident in the movie and television world in the past few years. They had  more to offer and had rights to get even more from life. Some other reasons may have added to their misery, but let's not ignore the root cause anymore.All these deaths will not go in vain only if we correct ourselves. I am saying "we" as it's also not a bollywood-specific problem. Mental abuse is a problem everywhere in our society. Hope bollywood biggies will not dismiss it as "oh he was off; oh every body faces it, he just couldn't handle it". Then these deaths will be so so utterly meaningless. Nobody should be abused, mentally or otherwise. And in the meantime we should try to sort it out around us.   But do I hope to see a change? Honestly speaking I don't have much hope. But I am still hopeful.
illusions said…
Couldn't agree more Kasturi. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Very valid argument and yes we must hope. Hope for a better tomorrow. Change always begins at home. But yes nothing will change overnight. We will have to work towards it. Finding fault in others is something we have to avoid in our daily lives. One must be cautious, compassionate and kind to each other to overcome obstacles. Let us keep working on these qualities by passing them on. Try and remember every day that our actions can impact the next person adversely. I for one will always be more cautious and keep sarcasm away from my interaction forever.

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